For Those Who've Tried to Fix Themselves – and Still Feel Like there is Something Missing
If you’ve done the work, stayed positive, and still feel stuck, you’re not alone.
We’ve been sold the fantasy that happiness, success, or self-improvement will finally make us whole. Yet chasing that fantasy often leaves us more anxious, disconnected, and exhausted.
UnHackYourLife offers a different way forward.
Through 1:1 coaching, courses, workshops, and writing, I create space for honest conversation—not to “fix” you, but to help you uncover what truly matters, make sense of your desires, and find freedom in being unfinished.
Our
Mission
What We Help With
If you’re:
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Tired of trying to “stay positive” while quietly burning out
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At a crossroads in work, love, or purpose
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Haunted by the feeling that life should make more sense than it does
Then this work is for you.
What You Can Expect
You won’t find five-step plans or quick fixes here.
Instead, you’ll find:
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Clarity about what’s really driving you,
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Freedom from the pressure to be perfect,
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Renewed energy for living with curiosity and creativity rather than control.
Because when you stop chasing the fantasy of completion, you start discovering a deeper, more creative relationship with your own life.
UNHACK 1:1 COACHING
For those seeking grounded, reflective insight about where they are and what’s next.
ONLINE COURSES
Self-paced courses exploring desire, lack, relationships, love and creativity from a diffferent perspective
WORKSHOPS
Thoughtful spaces for reflection, connection, and exploring the questions we often avoid
PUBLIC SPEAKING
Talks and conversations for events, drawing on my own experience of survival, loss, and letting go of the fantasy of a perfect life.
About Mark
I’ve come to this work not through theory alone, but through the lived experience—survival, loss, love, disappointment, and the pull between what we want and what life gives us
If there’s one thread that runs through my work, it’s this: life cannot be completed, perfected, or solved. Our longing for certainty, for resolution, for something final or whole is part of being human. But so too is learning how to live with what remains unfinished.